Part of the rewiring we men must do is around the "norms" we may have seen growing up. Mum doing the housework, Dad doing the mowing. Doesn't matter the roles and "rules" our parents followed, these aren't assumptions we should carry forward into our relationships. Gender discrimination hides in these places.
Think about what was "normal" between your parents. Challenge if these are actually fair. What if that wasn't the case? What are all the options ? Why do I think like this? Be free to explore and change the way you think.